Doctors

Don't worry, this post is not about actually about my (or anyone elses') health but rather my thoughts on my preferences in a doctor.


I know there are lists out there by the dozen about what people want in a perfect life partner or friend but I've never seen a list about what someone wants in a perfect doctor. Maybe it is just not something other people think about? or if they do think about it they won't admit it. Well I am going to be entirely honest. Maybe doing so will get you thinking about it.....

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The List

• South African
• Rabid perfectionist/overachiever
• Not A-phobic
• Not a bodybuilder
• Not someone I went to highschool with because you know who you are and I just could not deal (especially the someone who played in orchestra like you were blissful living that far up the teacher's ass)
• Not the kids of either of my neighbours because I have serious doubt about your sense of self-preservation and/or your assumed rights with other people. 

So in summary, my list is more of a list of 'don'ts' rather than 'dos'. Sadly the two that make my perfect doctor so hard to find is the accent (though I shouldn't have a problem if I move to South Africa!) and the A-phobia....I'd guess about 1/3 of all my doctors have been blatantly A-phobic, generally in regards to my greysexuality but sometimes against my aromantisicm.